Pleasure Cafe:
An evening of connection, exploration and honest conversation

Join pleasure and sexual empowerment coach, Olaiya Land, for a welcoming gathering centered around the question: What does pleasure mean to you?

In this free community event, we’ll explore the many dimensions of pleasure—physical, emotional, creative, sensual and beyond. Through guided prompts and open conversation, you’ll have space to reflect on what brings you joy, what might be blocking your access to it and how to invite more pleasure into your everyday life.

Whether you’re feeling deeply connected to pleasure or unsure where to begin, this is a space to be curious, supported and seen.

Expect:

• Real talk 

• Community connection

• Lightly facilitated discussion (no pressure to share!)

• A judgment-free space to explore what lights you up

• Snacks, of course (because, pleasure)

Come as you are, please RSVP so we can make a space for you.

Olaiya Land

I’m a certified, trauma-informed coach, dedicated to creating a safe, supportive space where true transformation can unfold.

With deep training in somatic healing, tantra-based intimacy, sacred sexuality, and gentle trauma release, my work guides you through healing both the mind and body. This journey is about more than just change—it’s about awakening profound, lasting shifts that bring you into a life of greater joy, confidence, self-acceptance, and pleasure.

As a Black, biracial, queer, poly, and kink-positive individual, I hold a deep belief that all bodies are good bodies, deserving of love and celebration.

I spent years of my life at war with my body and detached from my sensuality. Wrestling with frustration and self-doubt. Feeling like there had to be more to sex than this. 

I understand the struggle—those years spent disconnected from your own body, detached from your sensuality, feeling like something essential is missing. 

And I know how healing it can be to finally hold yourself with love and enjoy deeply pleasurable sex. 

I have seen the profound healing that comes from embracing yourself with compassion. The joy of experiencing deeply satisfying, soul-nourishing pleasure. I’ve seen this transformation in myself, and time and again in my clients—watching them move from disconnection and numbness to feeling vibrant, alive, and fully embodied in their sexuality.

Because great sex is more than just pleasure. (Though YES to that.) 

It’s transformational.

Learning to be present in your body during intimacy teaches you how to be more present, grounded, and confident in every part of your life. It’s about reclaiming the full, unapologetic joy of being alive.

That’s why my work centers on helping you reconnect with the wisdom of your body, to unlock the kind of awe-inspiring, life-changing sex you deserve.

If you feel the call to come home to yourself, reclaim your pleasure and dive into deep, erotic bliss, it would be my honor to walk alongside you on this journey.

Learn more about Olaiya.